This morning, I read one of Sister D memoir. For me, she is a strong women. Even though the strong defination is very subjective in one’s eye. However, her strength is from Allah, and to Allah she put her trust. It is not easy when your soul mate passed away at the time when you do not have enough time to spend with. But Only Allah knows the best. Ponder on her stories and her strong will, make me and I wanted to cheer and please my husband to the best I can. All because of Allah swt, all because Prophet Muhammad saw mentioned :
Saudaraku, dengan izin Anda perkenankanlah saya sekaran menyampaikan wasiat
Rasulullah SAW, kepada wanita disamping Anda:
“Seandainya aku boleh memerintahkan manusia bersujud kepada manusia lain,
aku akan perintahkan para istri untuk bersujud pada suami mereka karena
besarnya hak suami yang dianugerahkan Allah atas mereka”.
Masyallah, Subhanallah, when I ponder, is it enough what I have done to mu husband.His sacrication, his sweat , his uncomplianing and more when we are in UK make me thank Allah. I am blessed with my husband. Ya Allah, make me the best wife to my husband, make me gentle to my husband, I want to enter your Firsdaus jannah with the bless of my husband and You. AMIN.
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I received this wonderful doa from Sister D, AlFatihah to your late husband.